I fretted over my dress for some time. I read the dress code guidebook that is put out to help us hapless non-ball going people avoid making fools of ourselves. I knew I needed a floor-length dress, but aside from that I was free to pick what I liked. I stalked some dresses on ebay and won a raw silk dress from the UK for $60. It was pretty ugly but I thought I might be able to find a tailor who could transform it. I got really really lucky because very close to our apartment in Wroclaw is the studio of a young designer (Le Blakk) who was willing to take on the challenge of making my dress ball-worthy. For $130 she transformed it and fitted it for me. I ended up with a silk and lace, one of a kind, custom-fitted gown for less than $200 and it didn't involve child-labour in China! My only regret with the dress would be not having them hem it shorter to make dancing easier (lesson learned).
We must pause here for a before and after photo so you can admire the work Le Blakk did.

Peter bought his tux in Poland (buying being only slightly more expensive than renting for a week). We spent some of our time in Prague and Vienna shopping around for proper tie-it-yourself bow ties and elbow-length black gloves; both of these are surprisingly hard to find, but we succeeded and it gave us a good excuse to wander to strange areas of town.
(I mention all these details because these were the things we wondered about that no one explained before hand. Perhaps this info will be useful to others going to their first ball in Vienna.)
Once we were rid of our coats, we made our way up the grand staircase - the ceremonial arrival, complete with red carpet. This is where I learned that I don't know how to go up stairs in a floor-length evening gown. I had some technical difficulties. But we made it! Mental note: practice navigating stairs! There are photographers on the stair landing to take photos as people arrive. We skipped it initially and went back later and posed. (The prints are on tables by the coat check area at the end of the evening - a nice souvenir.)
We did find a vantage point for the very end of the ceremony when they open the floor for dancing. I still don't know how anyone managed to do any part of a Viennese waltz on a dance floor that crowded!
Debutantes only....
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Everyone!
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There was an orchestra in the main ballroom, a band in the Ceremonial Hall, and a band in another, small room with tables. Downstairs was another room with a band (salsa/latin, I think - we completely forgot to visit this room!). The music played was a mix - Viennese and slow waltzes, foxtrots, chacha, rumba, swing mostly (where we were). It was a mix of people who know how to dance really well, others who kind of know what's going on (like us), and people winging it. The dance floors were generally pretty crowded and there were collisions, unavoidably. Later in the evening it thinned out a bit. I suspect if we had stayed another hour it would have been even less crowded.
At midnight they do the first Quadrille (set figure dances done in lines). We missed the midnight one but caught the 2:30am one (as spectators). I would love to know these figures and to dance them with others who know them, it looks like fun! I read advice before going that said to jump in and participate in the Quadrille even if you don't know it, but I disagree. Since you dance it with several people (the person across from you, the person diagonal to you, etc), if you don't know it, you'll kind of ruin it for them. They do call out the patterns (in German) and there are couples on stage doing it as a demo, but I say if you don't know it, just stand back and watch; it's very funny to watch. I posted a video of it here. And to contrast, here's what it looks like done by people who know it.
Here's a video I took of a Viennese Waltz. This is a very very crowded dance floor to try to do any waltz, much less a Viennese!! We tried a few times, but it was just too crowded! We need to practice a smaller, more compact version before the next ball.
Vienna is a wonderful town - full of history and architecture and fabulous cafes - and in winter you can enjoy it all without mobs of tourists, plus, you can pop into a ball in the royal palace. I highly recommend it.
Even more photos here! More info on attending balls in Vienna is here and here.
Summary of tips for your Vienna ball:
- - make sure your dress is hemmed a bit short so you can dance easily
- - buy seats at a table somewhere; I would recommend the Ceremonial Hall so you can watch dancing while you relax.
- - it is not unusual for people to change into proper dance shoes upon arrival. Simply check your extra shoes with your coat.
- - unless you have seats in the main ballroom, you have to arrive very early to nab a spot to stand and watch the ceremony. It's probably a nice show, but not the end of the world if you miss it. The real fun is dancing yourself.
- - they won't bar you from entry if you don't meet the dress code, but try to. We saw men with non-black bow ties and a few ladies with mid-calf (rather than floor length) dresses, so you can do it and get in, but better to be respectful of the traditional dress code, I think.
- - be sure to pose for photos at some point with the official photographers
- - wear comfortable shoes you can dance in - this is not the night for new shoes or 4in heels, not if you mean to dance!

Love this!!!!!!
Natasha
This is so delightful! You guys look amazing (what a score with the dress rework)! I had no idea this was even a thing - it's like from a movie!
Sign me up for the next time!
Wow!
Lisa, I'm so glad you went to this and posted about it! How glamorous! And your dress turned out beautifully!